Posts tagged with ‘cheating’
I’ve seen a lot of advice that says you shouldn’t talk to the other girl. But I don’t agree with that. Personally, if my boyfriend were cheating on me, I would want the other woman to fill me in. If you think his girlfriend doesn’t know, you should tell her. It won’t be easy, but wouldn’t you want someone to do that for you? And if she already knows what happened and you’re feeling really awful, you can apologize if you’d like to. Again, this isn’t easy. But it doesn’t have to be a long, drawn-out conversation. You can even just send a Facebook message saying you’re sorry, you didn’t realize what was happening, and you feel awful.
Cheating sucks, but honestly, cheating has inspired some amazing songs. So, in a way, cheating is a necessary evil because we want some good music in our lives. That’s a pretty fair compromise. I guess that’s how it works.
TRACKLIST: TLC - Creep • Carrie Underwood – Before He Cheats • Shaggy – It Wasn’t Me • Destiny’s Child – Say My Name • No Doubt – Artificial Sweetener • Metric - Gold Guns Girls • Blue Cantrell - Hit ‘Em Up Style • Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Cheated Hearts • Dolly Parton - Jolene • The Shangri-Las - You Cheated, You Lied
Art by Yemelianova Yulia
…Do you forgive him?
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