Posts tagged with ‘dating’
A Little Extra Fat: “That tiny paunch that sometimes forms when the’re sitting down after a full day of eating, drinking, whatever… or the little bit of a jiggle in their butt or thighs when they walk… or that their hips aren’t flat flush against the waist strap of their jeans to within a millimeter, etc. Despite what a vocal contingent of very opinionated guys on the internet say, we’re not all Patrick Bateman-types searching for “perfect hardbodies” and recoil at the slightest hint of anything resembling body fat. Women are supposed to have deposits around the chest, hips and thighs, and most guys appreciate some of it, and even more still will find you drop dead gorgeous in person even if he has a preference towards a completely toned swimsuit model look. Human bodies are imperfect machines, and even healthy and athletic people have a little bit of extra somewhere, that in reality most other people never even notice.”
Don’t Let Jealousy Ruin Your Friendship: If you both know you like the same person, there is bound to be some jealousy there. You’ll feel it when you see her talking to him, she’ll feel it when she sees you talking to him. Try not to let this jealousy ruin your friendship. If it starts to become too much, you guys need to talk again and come to some sort of agreement.
That moment when you stop being reluctant to talk about race issues because, get real, you’re not dating an ignorant jerk.
All the flirting advice you’d ever need.
Signals Don’t Work: Stop using “signals” to try to get a guy to ask you out. No, we’re not all oblivious to them, in fact some of us are pretty damn good at it, but would you use this method with anything else you wanted in life? If you were buying a new car and wanted a certain model, would you give the salesman subtle hints that you want that car over there? No, you’d look him right in the eye and say “I want that car.” So instead of dropping hints, why not just walk right up to the guy and say “Hey, I like you, let’s go out”?