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Anonymous asked: I'm in a relationship and need some sex advice. I'm not really getting a whole lot out of having sex. I think it's cause the guy I'm with I was his first and he really doesn't know what he is do. So any ways when we are having sex it hurts and I don't know if it's cause I'm not that into it or hat. Please help maybe there are some things I can do to make sex better?

Hey gurl,

We hear ya! Check out Having Bad Sex? This Might Be WhyWhy Are You Really Having Bad Sex?! and My Boyfriend Is Bad At Sex! for some good advice. If sex hurts, it’s a possibility you may not be lubricated enough. Make sure you and your boyfriend have enough foreplay and if that’s not enough, maybe try a lubricant (available at most drugstores).

Love,

gurl

Anonymous asked: Hey gurl. I'm 16 &; I'm in a relationship with my best friend but the thing is he treats me like I have no feelings. He calls me names &; tells me to shut up when he's upset &; I'm really tired of it but I love him to much to break up with him. Help?

You have to be with someone who deserves you and treats you well, best friend or not. Arguments are healthy in a relationship as long as they don’t get to a point that is considered abusive. If he calls you insulting names, that’s abusive. If he “treats [you] like you have no feelings”, that’s abusive. You are a strong female and you should stand up for yourself. Read 10 Signs You Have A Bad Boyfriend and 10 Signs You’re In An Abusive Relationship And What To Do If You Are. The latter article includes helpline information that you can call to get further, more specific advice.

We love you.

xo

gurl

Anonymous asked: Hi I need help please, my mom says I can't date because im to young to date but I have a boyfriend already and I would be dead if she found out. I want to be able to tell her without her freaking out about it and taking me away from him. can you help?

Hey gurl,

We have a ton of advice on this. Remember that your mom was once your age and can therefore understand where you’re coming from. Check out these articles for advice on how to approach the topic:

How To Tell Your Parents You Have A Boyfriend

My Parents Won’t Let Me Date – How Can I Change Their Minds?

How To Convince Your Parents That You’re Old Enough To Date

xoxo

gurl

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Anonymous asked: Girls, I want your opinion. I'm 18 and I never had boyfriend. And all the stuff that comes with it. Is that normal? Is there an age when "things" have must be done? Will be waiting your answer (Sorry If I didn't express well, I don't speak english actually). Kisses.

Hey gurl, 

There is no age when “things” are supposed to happen. 18 is still very young. Here are some great articles to show you how incredibly normal your situation is:

I’m 19 and Never Been on a Date or Kissed

I’m 18 And I’ve Never Been Kissed or Dated Anyone. Will This Hurt My Dating Life in the Future?

Ask A Guy: I’ve Never Kissed Anyone – Will Guys Think I’m Weird?

I’m 22 And I’ve Never Been Kissed…And It’s Not A Big Deal

Remember that your most mature relationships you have will most likely form after high school. We know this is cliche to say, but there are going to be plenty of fish in the sea. 

All our love,

gurl

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