Posts tagged with ‘dating advice’
Anonymous asked: I really like this guy and we talk a lot but I don't know if he likes me or not. Sometimes, we'll snapchat or text and sometimes he won't reply. I feel like he's giving mixed signals. What do I do?
We’ve totally been there. First, let’s decode his text messages and then check out this and, alternatively, this. Sometimes there is a fine (very annoying) line between a guy that is crushing on you and one that is just being nice. Make sure you’re not the one initiating every snapchat/text conversation. If he usually texts you first, it’s definitely a sign he likes you.
Anonymous asked: I need help telling this guy I like him! We've been texting a lot and stuff, and he's never acted like he likes me, but, regardless, I'm going to tell him that I like him. Any advice on how to do so?
You go gurl! Building up the courage to tell someone you like them with the looming possibility of rejection is never easy. When it comes to expressing your feelings, we’re firm believers in the phrase, “better to regret something you did do than something you didn’t”. Check out this thread for some awesome advice on how to approach him.
Heaps of love,
Anonymous asked: Hey - my guy friend said to another friend he would say yes to me is i asked him out but i'm, worried it will be really awkward between us and I'll mess it up? Thank you x
There’s a lot of stuff to consider if you’re worried about ruining a great friendship. Seems like you’re already past stage one, which is 10 Signs Your Guy Friend Likes You. If you have a primary source that says your friend is interested in dating, you’re in the home stretch.
Before you do anything, read 10 Tips On How To Date Your Best Friend and watch this episode of Sexy Times with Gurl. Basically, there is always a chance that things will get awkward… and fast. Unfortunately that is just a risk you have to be willing to take. Weigh the pros and cons and decide what’s best for yourself. Just remember that there may not always be a possibility to date this boy but there is always a possibility that a friendship can be saved post-relationship.
BONUS! Here’s a tidbit submitted by beautyforthebetter:
Anonymous asked: If he ignores me and when I talk to him he just doesnt want to talk he wants me to leave him right?? :(
Do you try and talk to him when he’s busy? Usually no guy that likes you would ignore you without giving a reason like “Hey, I have to finish this, let’s talk later”. Here are 10 Ways To Know That He Doesn’t Like You and the Complete Guide On How To Know If Your Crush Doesn’t Like You.
Honestly, if you’re getting cold vibes from him he’s not worth your time.You deserve to be treated better! If he likes you, he should make an effort to talk.
We know it’s hard but stay strong, there are plenty of more worthwhile fish in the sea ;)
All our love,
thisisseriouslygettingbetter asked: tell me what I should do if this guy (trevor) is totally coming onto me( me a freshy) and pulling the "I Love you" card what should I do if I don't have the same feelings? I mean we have been friends for 4 years and this is so nerve racking!
This can be a super awkward situation and its one where there is no easy answer. Basically, you have to be honest. Not telling him how you feel will do more harm than good. Sooner rather than later, too! Make sure you emphasize how much you still want to be friends, and how meaningful that friendship is to you. Here is a survival guide to letting him down gently.