Posts tagged with ‘friends’
Anonymous asked: I don't know if you usually do this, but I really need advice. I have a group of girl friends, around 7 of them. Before I became part of this group, I was always talkative and happy and always felt really comfortable with knowing who my friends were. Unfortunately, since I joined the group, I feel really shitty about myself. For instance, the girl who is closest to me birthday is today. The group went out and decorated her car with balloons. All of them except for me..even though I'm the closest
to the birthday girl.. I just don’t get it. There’s been so many instances where this has happened and I’ve expressed hurt from it before.. it always gets disregarded. Usually, some of them will be like ‘Oh, we’re sorry.’ and then they’ll go and do it the next opportunity. I don’t know what it’s like to have a group of friends who genuinely care for me, and I don’t know how to get that. When I do hang out with them, a good 80% of what I say gets ignored. Is this normal..? I don’t know anymore.
We’ve been there. It sucks. Honestly, you should reconsider being friends with them. If you’ve already talked to them about feeling left-out and they haven’t been responsive, they’re not your friends. Friends don’t do that. We’ve covered and supported many similar situations, so check out these articles and decide if these girls are really worth your time:
And finally.. 10 Tips On How To Make New Friends In School
Stay strong and remember middle/high school is just a blip on your life’s radar. The best friends and strongest, most mature relationships will be made post-high-school, so don’t waste your time pursuing friendships that make you miserable.
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